Book launch - My Father's Suitcase by Mary Garden
Join us as we celebrate the launch of Mary Garden's third and perhaps most ambitious and thought-provoking book yet. The launch will include an In Conversation, QnA and book signing.
About the Book:
A gripping tale of resilience and survival that offers hope to others who have experienced family violence and suffered at the hands of a sibling. A deeply personal and heartbreaking memoir that explores the troubled relationship between Mary Garden and her younger sister, Anna, who died in 2023 after a short illness. Mary unpacks her life of growing up in New Zealand in the 1950s and '60s, before making Australia home. She reveals complex layers of intergenerational trauma, including the baggage of her eccentric, deeply flawed father and the secret her mother kept from all of them, revealed only after her death. Mary deals movingly with her sister's long battle with mental illness and how she once saved Anna's life. As she unravels these narratives, Mary touches on the guilt and shame familiar to anyone who has had to deal with secrets, violence and 'madness' in their family. And she shines a light on sibling abuse, the most common form of abuse in the context of family violence - occurring up to five times as frequently as spousal or parental child abuse - although it is often dismissed as 'sibling rivalry'. It causes far-reaching, long-lasting harm.
About the Author:
Mary Garden was born in New Zealand and has a PhD from the University of the Sunshine Coast. Working as a freelance journalist, her writing has appeared in a range of publications, including Newsroom, New Zealand Geographic, Meanjin, The Weekend Australian, Australian Financial Review and The Humanist (US). Her first book The Serpent Rising (1988, 2003), a memoir of her years entangled with various gurus in India in the 1970s, won the High Country Indie Book Award 2021. Sundowner of the Skies, a biography of her father Oscar Garden, was short-listed for the NSW Premier's History Award 2020. She now lives in Castlemaine, Australia.
Testimonials:
John Caffaro, Distinguished Professor, California School of Professional Psychology and the world's leading authority on sibling abuse, endorsed the memoir saying:
A heartfelt rendering of the writer's struggles with an abusive sister, and her ultimate journey towards recovery. Mary does an especially good job of describing family of origin dynamics that set the stage for the troubled relationship with her sister, and she points to a path forward for adult survivors.
‘Writing with insight, restraint and compassion, Mary Garden shines a clear, unflinching light on her own family, and herself.’ – Maurice Gee
‘Mary Garden roars against injustice … a raw and unguarded account of a reckoning, a story a lifetime in the making. ’ – Michelle Tom, author of Ten Thousand Aftershocks
‘With searing honesty, Mary Garden combines memoir and deep research to explore the complex nature of sibling relationships. ’ – Nicole Madigan, author of Obsessed
Date: Monday May 6 2024
Time: 5 00pm for a 5 30pm start and 7 00pm finish (including signing)
Venue: The Garden Room, Buda House, Castlemaine 3450
Cost: $15
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